Premature Ejaculation Questions
I have premature ejaculation. Can it be treated with sexual medicines? Where can I get help? Why do I have that? Doesn’t premature ejaculation affect my marriage or the quality of my sex life? These are all questions that almost all men in the world have asked themselves one day. You are not alone.
Before searching for the causes of premature ejaculation, you must ask yourself ‘what does premature ejaculation really mean?’ Maybe you have a wrong definition of premature ejaculation in your mind!
In this article, I am going to share with you the real scientific definition of premature ejaculation and the causes. Then I show you what you must do to prevent it for the rest of your life. If you are interested. Then
Hi, I am Reza Khodamehri, a hypnotherapist, and researcher in the field of mental health. And today I am going to answer all questions regarding pre ejaculation.
How to treat rapid ejaculation in four steps
Step 1: Premature ejaculation Definition( Conscious mind gym)
Step 2: Premature ejaculation Home remedies( Body Gym)
Sep 3: Hypnosis and self-hypnosis for premature ejaculation( unconscious mind gym)
Step4: Medical treatment
In this article, I used the most accurate research-based article sources. I attempted to write something different than other articles on the Internet. I hope you like it.
Step1: Conscious Mind Treatment
Definitions come from people
Reading is a good habit. But reading from everywhere is not.
Millions of blog posts with the purpose of marketing are copied from nonscientific websites every day. And after re-editing will be posted on the Internet again. These articles have no values. And also have negative effects instead of contributing. The problem of premature ejaculation is no exception.
The scientific definition is very important
Is there a scientific method, ruler, or Instrument for measuring premature ejaculation? or could everyone define it based on their own sexual experience? In this case, there would be not just one definition but many definitions. Definitions that could vary among different people, nationalities, cultures, and geographical locations.
If we look at it from a biological point of view, we see that most animals reach sexual orgasm in less than 30 seconds. So, they all have premature ejaculation and should go to an animal doctor for treatment.
From a biological point of view, the only purpose of sexual intercourse is reproduction. So we can conclude that orgasm in less than 5 seconds is very normal.
Philosophers and poets have also their own criteria and opinions. And they all provide strong reasons. For example, philosophers and poets raise the subject of love and do not like to talk about sexual orgasm.
Some religions even recommend a quicky. And they consider long sexual activity as a way to corrupt the soul.
Since premature ejaculation is a sensitive topic, we must measure it with a precise ruler so that we do not make a mistake. The slightest error can lead us to the abyss of severe social harm.
PE definition by international society for sexual medicine (ISSM)
After many years of arguing, the association finally published a definition. But according to researchers, this definition has no general basis. And can not be used to diagnose premature ejaculation.
They say that “a male sexual dysfunction described by ejaculation which always or nearly always occurs prior to or within about one minute of vaginal penetration, and the inability to delay ejaculation on all or nearly all vaginal penetrations is considering Premature Ejaculation”
Archimedes says the world is made up of numbers
If Archimedes was right, then we can measure premature ejaculation on the basis of numbers. Here I am going to get help from one of the good scientific research that has done a good job in this regard.
The rate of premature ejaculation in this study was 19.27%.
Both people who complained of premature ejaculation and those who thought they had no problems participated in the study.
The secret lies in this scientific research
The study showed that many men who their ejaculation occurs between 10 to 20 minutes also considered themselves as a PE patient.
Participants’ health was also assessed to prevent any statistical errors.
The investigations are as follows:
1. Age over 18 years
2- Couples sexual relationship for more than six months
3- Mental health, sexual health, and body health
4- No addictionon to alcohol and opiates
5 – No history of strong medication or surgery
In this table, we can see well that 80% of men reach sexual orgasm in less than three minutes. And only less than one percent of men can control their ejaculation for more than 5 minutes.
Hollywood, the big Influencer
The result of this article shows the opposite of what we have known and heard so far.
Before we thought that if anybody come in less than half an hour, then he is not normal.
Where did this expectation come from?
Porno movies show a big man having the best kind of sex for an hour. Oh, these guys are very strong.
But in reality, we know that they have all used strong pills to prevent premature ejaculation. And also with just a little bit of filmmaking knowledge, we notice that this sex tape has been filmed on several occasions.
The result of wrong preception
Now, what will happen if a woman or a man sees these films?
He or she compares himself and her husband with the actor in the lead role of that film. This is where the destruction begins. The wrong expectation that could destroy the foundation of the family.
An important point for the female reader of this article
Female readers may think of what I concluded sofar as misrepresentation or exaggeration. Or they still believe that women’s sexual satisfaction depends on men’s sexual performance. But they should consider that sexual satisfaction is a multifactor topic and many variables play a role.
In the first part of this chart, we see that men expect more control over their ejaculation time. But their partners expect not that much. This suggests that men may be watching more pornographic films.
In the next column, we see that women complain more about their husbands’ premature ejaculation. This shows that they see their dissatisfaction as dependent on the sexual performance of their husbands.
This is probably one of the biggest complaints of women in their married life.
Why can’t my man bring me to orgasm?
Sexual desire is one of the strongest mental and psychological instincts of living beings. So a successful marital relationship can play a key role in sexual health. And premature ejaculation can be considered a big indicator of relationship problems. But this is not that much easy
Other questions may arise in this regard that requires further consideration.
Do men have to always satisfy their partners?
how many women can reach orgasm with just sexual penetration?
How much do porn movies play a role in cultivating women’s expectations?
How likely are women can experience orgasm in normal sexual activity?
Does the size of the penis help orgasm?
How can women maximize their chances of reaching sexual orgasm?
What is the men’s duty in sexual intercourse?
These are all questions that I will definitely address in the future. You can subscribe to my blog and I will send you these articles as soon as possible.
Why is fast sex completely normal?
Doubt in statistical information
Maybe some people have doubts about this Chinese article which I provided here.
With a little search on the Internet, we can find more international articles about premature ejaculation.
This research for example.
In this project, a total of 500 couples were recruited from five countries: the Netherlands, the United Kingdom, Spain, Turkey, and the United States. We can see that the result is pretty much the same as other article.
Frequently Asked Questions in the first part
What is premature ejaculation? An accurate answer
According to many research, the definition of premature ejaculation can be completely personal. And can influenced by religions – media – porn movies – friends – books – Newspapers – sexual partners, sexual dysfunction, frustration, and other factors. Base on scientific research more than 80 percent of men reach orgasm in less than 3 minutes and just 5 percent can keep their ejaculation more than 5 minutes.
How long should a man last before ejaculation?
This depends on the person’s expectation and their sexual partner. In scientific studies, some men reported that less than 20 minutes for them is considered premature ejaculation. While some men reported that ejaculation within 5 minutes is normal and good.
Does premature ejaculation affect pregnancy?Just entering the vagina is enough for pregnancy. The time of ejaculation is not very important. But in some cases, it may indirectly impact fertility. For example:
Premature ejaculation can make sexual frustration, anger, stress, and difficulties between couples. And this may reduce the chance of sexual intercourse which indirectly affects fertility.
In some cases, the man avoids having sex to avoid embarrassment. This reduces the chance of pregnancy.
In severe premature ejaculation cases, the man may ejaculate before entering the vaginal canal. In this case, the male sexual cells can not reach the woman’s egg and result in no pregnancy chance.
Does circumcision cause premature ejaculation?
According to article number one and number two and other scientific articles, sexual satisfaction, and the severity of premature ejaculation are significantly associated with adult circumcision. The results of scientific research indicate that circumcised men have longer ejaculation time, better ejaculation control, and more sexual satisfaction than uncircumcised men. These findings suggest that circumcision may have positive effects on premature ejaculation, ejaculation control, and sexual satisfaction.
What is the main cause of premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is a multi-factor issue. For example:
1-Wrong definition of premature ejaculation can cause people to think that they have pre ejaculation. But they do not have really. Probably you are also normal.
2-Depression or anxiety, especially about sexual performance.
3-Feeling anxious about being rejected by a sexual partner
4-Expecting premature ejaculation, which indicates a kind of conditioning circle
5-Wrong Religious, philosophical, personal, and social beliefs about sexual activities.
6-Stress before sex
Control PE, yes or no?
The answer is YES
Sexual desire is one of the strongest instincts of living things. Life would not have been possible without that. And our survival could have been in danger, and man is the only creature on earth who is able to solve big problems. That is what we do right now. To solve premature ejaculation for more pleasure.
Long sex is very pleasable when both partners want that. The good news is: Premature ejaculation is very treatable.
Now if you are interested in learning more about this, please continue reading.
Step 2: Body Treatment
The negative effect of masturbation on pre-ejaculation:
Pelvic floor muscles control technique in 7 steps
Start / stop technique
2- Tickling response
5- Controlled Ejaculation
6- Continue working with oil or cream
7- Adding your sexual partner
Conclusion Part 2: Bodybuilding Club
Step 3: Unconscious Mind Treatment
Premature ejaculation treatment with hypnotherapy
Self Hypnosis File
Step 4: Premature ejaculation Medicines
Premature ejaculation medicines strategy:
Antidepressants delay ejaculation: selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
Local anesthetic cream: EMLA
Sildenafil or Viagra tablets
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